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The Burdens of Success: Surrendering Control and Focusing on Others

In life, we all have dreams, desires, and aspirations that we want to achieve. However, sometimes the things we desire may not be easily attainable or may come with a great deal of responsibility and burden. As Di Tran, author of “Drop the ME and focus on the OTHERs” and “Drop the FEAR and Focus on the FAITH,” suggests, if you want something that others cannot normally have, you must be willing and able to handle the burden that others may not be able to handle.

It’s essential to understand that success and achievement come with responsibilities, commitments, and sometimes hardships that we must be willing to endure. If we want to achieve something extraordinary, we must be willing to take on extraordinary responsibilities and face challenges that others may not be willing to face. It’s easy to get lost in our own desires and become self-centered. However, Di Tran emphasizes that we must focus on others, be selfless, and serve the greater good.

The burdens that come with achieving our desires can be challenging to handle. The stress and pressure can take a toll on our mental and physical health. However, Di Tran suggests that surrendering our stress to the divine universe and focusing on the things we can control, such as our self-care, love, and devotion to our craft, can make life much happier.

Instead of getting lost in our own desires, we must focus on the bigger picture and understand how our achievements can positively impact others. When we focus on serving others and being selfless, the burdens become lighter, and the challenges become easier to handle. We must also understand that we cannot control everything in life, and there will be obstacles that we cannot overcome. However, by focusing on what we can control, we can create a more fulfilling and meaningful life.