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The Power of Self Belief: Reflecting on “Leave the Mirror and Change Your Face” and “Drop the FEAR and Focus on the FAITH”

As we traverse the winding paths of self-discovery, personal development, and spiritual growth, we are often guided by the wisdom of those who have gone before us. Two insightful pieces of literature, “Leave the Mirror and Change Your Face” by Neville Goddard and “Drop the FEAR and Focus on the FAITH” by Di Tran, provide unique and transformative perspectives on these journeys. These works underscore the importance of a strong belief in self-imagination, fostering the affirmation of the “I AM” identity, and internalizing this conviction without contradiction.

“Leave the Mirror and Change Your Face” is a potent metaphor that reflects Neville Goddard’s philosophical orientation towards changing one’s reality by changing one’s internal state. According to Goddard, the outer world is but a mirror of our inner world, mirroring our beliefs, perceptions, and expectations. As such, if we wish to alter our external circumstances, we must first change the face we present to the mirror – our inner state.

Goddard’s thesis profoundly underscores the power of self-imagination and the importance of aligning one’s beliefs with one’s desires. This fundamental assertion, that the belief in the reality of our imaginal acts is key to manifesting our desires, mirrors the teachings found in Di Tran’s book, “Drop the FEAR and Focus on the FAITH.”

In “Drop the FEAR and Focus on the FAITH,” Tran emphasizes the immense power that faith and belief have on our lives. He teaches us to relinquish our fears and, instead, concentrate on the faith we have in our abilities and our dreams. He believes that fear only serves to distract us from our true potentials and ambitions.

Just like Goddard, Tran emphasizes that faith in our internal vision—our self-imagination—holds the power to shape our external reality. Tran advocates that one’s internal affirmation of “I AM” must be positive, robust, and free from any contradiction or doubt. This means that the faith in oneself and one’s abilities must be unshakeable and must come from within. Both authors agree that only by believing in oneself, in one’s worth, and in one’s ability to achieve can one truly manifest the reality one desires.

Interestingly, the convergence of these themes across both works reinforces the idea that fear and doubt are significant barriers to personal development and actualizing our goals. Both Goddard and Tran emphasize that these negative emotions distort the mirror of our reality, reflecting back the very fears and doubts we harbor within ourselves.

In summary, both “Leave the Mirror and Change Your Face” by Neville Goddard and “Drop the FEAR and Focus on the FAITH” by Di Tran provide a fascinating exploration into the power of self-belief and the role of self-imagination in shaping our realities. The concept of “I AM” plays a crucial role in both works, emphasizing that our internal state, what we believe and imagine ourselves to be, strongly influences our external circumstances. In this sense, they teach us that to manifest the reality we desire, we must first change our face, drop the fear, and focus on faith. By doing so, we unlock the power to transform our lives from within.

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Embracing Failure: An Enlightening Journey to Growth and Discovery

The concept of failure has been frequently misunderstood and feared by many. It often carries with it a negative connotation, suggesting defeat, loss, or setback. However, we often neglect an essential facet of failure—the transformative potential it holds and the insight it can provide into personal growth and learning. This unconventional view is adeptly elucidated in the forthcoming book by Di Tran, titled “Drop the FEAR and Focus on the FAITH”.

Di Tran’s book provides an eye-opening perspective, shifting the common narrative surrounding failure. He advocates the profound idea that “failure is the greatest thing on earth”. If you comprehend that you can no longer fail, it signals that you may be stagnating, devoid of novel things to undertake or learn. This realization indicates that you are standing still, suggesting an absence of personal and professional growth. If one persists in doing identical things over the years and continues to face failure, it conveys that they are not investing adequately in their life’s enhancement, thereby metaphorically stepping backward.

However, embracing this perspective is not as simple as comprehending it. The ability to truly understand and apply this concept is an arduous task that requires an open mind. Tran believes that it demands personal life experiences to foster this level of awareness. It necessitates daily actions and constant dedication to hone and sustain this understanding.

This fresh perspective invites us to rethink our attitudes towards achieving our goals. Tran contends that the destination or the end goal is not as important as the journey to reach it. It’s about the experiences gained, the mental fortitude developed, and the knowledge accumulated on the path to the destination. The destination is simply a point in space; the journey is where real growth and learning take place. By focusing solely on the endpoint, one may overlook the valuable lessons and insights gleaned from the journey.

It is this journey that tests our character, shapes our personalities, and most importantly, presents us with numerous opportunities for failure. And it is these failures that teach us the most about ourselves. They provide a chance for introspection, to identify our weaknesses, and to improve. Failure, then, is not something to be feared but to be embraced, as it is an essential part of our journey towards growth and self-discovery.

For Tran, failure should not be associated with fear; instead, it should be linked with faith. It’s about having the belief that failure is not the end, but the beginning of a new learning process. It’s about understanding that every time we fail, we are provided with another opportunity to grow, to learn, and to improve ourselves.

Di Tran’s revolutionary take on failure as a pathway to success is a timely reminder of the importance of resilience, courage, and an open mindset. It serves as a guide for those seeking to embrace failure, learn from their experiences, and use these as stepping stones towards personal growth and success. By dropping the fear and focusing on faith, we can make the most of our failures and turn them into our most significant achievements.

“Drop the FEAR and Focus on the FAITH” promises to be an insightful guide that propels readers towards a transformative journey of embracing failure and unlocking their true potential. The key takeaway is that failure, contrary to its conventional negative perception, is indeed the greatest thing on earth when harnessed correctly. It is the forerunner of growth, the catalyst for learning, and the bridge that connects us with our true selves.

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The Joy of Parenting: Embracing Faith Over Fear

Every once in a while, as a parent, you may catch yourself immersed in a pool of questions. Am I doing this right? Am I good enough? What if I fail my children? These are just a few among many doubts that may occasionally cloud your mind. Di Tran, renowned author of the compelling book, “Drop the ME and Focus on the OTHERs”, and the soon to be released, “Drop the FEAR and Focus on the FAITH”, offers some profound insights that shed light on the joys of parenting and the intrinsic beauty of this role.

Parenthood isn’t about being perfect; it’s about striving each day to be the best version of yourself for your children. It’s about fostering a nurturing environment that shapes your children into kind, smart, loving, capable, independent, creative individuals who understand the value of contributing to society.

As parents, we often invest the best of ourselves in our children. We offer them the best guidance we can, we instill them with the best values, and we hope for the best outcomes. We continually learn from the best sources and implement these lessons in our parenting, all with the goal of nurturing the best possible versions of our children.

One of the most gratifying experiences in parenting comes from witnessing the tangible results of these efforts. A recent event in Di’s life perfectly illustrates this point. His three children recently had their first piano lesson with a gentleman who, despite being in his 60s, still actively plays piano at their local church. After their lesson at their own home, the children spontaneously showed their kindness and respect to the elderly man, making sure he had water to drink, chocolates to eat, and thanking him profusely – all without any parental prompting.

Observing such moments from behind the scenes, parents feel a sense of overwhelming pride and fulfillment. The fear of not being a good enough parent dissipates, replaced with a sense of profound satisfaction and bliss. This is one of the unspoken joys of parenting – witnessing your children reflect the values you’ve instilled in them, and to see them extending kindness and respect towards others.

But even in such moments of joy, there will be instances when fear and faith intersect. Parenthood is often a balance of these two – the fear of failure and the faith in one’s abilities as a parent. How does one choose between the two? Di’s advice is to simply act, do your best, and let faith guide you.

Faith is about believing that you’re doing your best, even when you stumble, and it’s about trusting that things will turn out alright in the end. Let your actions be driven by faith and not by fear. Leave the rest to the divine, or to the universe, or to whichever higher power you believe in.

The journey of parenting is as challenging as it is rewarding. It’s full of self-doubt, but also brimming with moments of joy, pride, and accomplishment. So drop the fear, focus on faith, and embrace the journey, for it is one of the most beautiful and fulfilling roles you will ever play.

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Surrendering to God and Filling the Emptiness: A Profound Conversation with Liz Curtis Higgs

Who is Liz Curtis Higgs

Liz Curtis Higgs is a bestselling author, speaker, and Bible teacher. She was born in Kentucky, USA, in 1953, and grew up in a Christian family. She has written more than 30 books, including non-fiction works on topics such as biblical studies, women’s issues, and Christian living, as well as novels and children’s books.

Liz Curtis Higgs

Higgs is perhaps best known for her Bad Girls of the Bible series, which explores the lives of women in the Bible who made mistakes or broke the rules, such as Eve, Delilah, and Bathsheba. Her books have sold millions of copies and have been translated into numerous languages.

In addition to her writing, Higgs is a popular speaker and Bible teacher, and has traveled extensively to speak at conferences and events. She has also appeared on numerous television and radio programs. Higgs currently lives in Louisville, Kentucky, with her husband, Bill, and their two children.

Di Tran’s Meeting with Liz Curtis Higgs

Meeting Liz Curtis Higgs was a truly wonderful experience, and it was clear that God was working through both of us during our conversation. We talked about surrendering to God and the moment when we each became aware of the presence of the divine in our lives. Liz shared a profound insight with me, that our hearts, souls, and cores are like empty vacuum spaces that are constantly seeking to be filled with something.

As humans, we often seek to fill this emptiness with material things, food, alcohol, negativity, anger, power, success, or any number of other things. But what we fill up with truly matters, and the answer to our seeking is much simpler than we might imagine.

Di Tran + Liz Curtis Higgs

The answer has always been with us, as God is within each of us. We have everything we need, including the most powerful of all things, our spirit, which is in harmony with the infinite divine universe. The challenge is that we often don’t let our spirit do its job, as we try to control everything in our lives.

What we need to do is surrender and let go of our self, so that our spirit can run its course naturally and manifest the things we desire. This is in alignment with the idea of “Drop the FEAR and Focus on the FAITH,” which I explore in my upcoming book, the guide to faith by understanding fear and worry, and surrendering them so that God has the space to work through us.

It’s clear that filling the emptiness with things outside in the world doesn’t fill it. We need God as the energy to fill that space, and surrendering to God allows this energy to flow freely.

I’m so grateful for my conversation with Liz, and for the wisdom she shared with me. It’s clear that God is working through her, and through each of us, in ways that we might not even realize.

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Finding Happiness through Helping Others: 10 Simple Acts of Kindness

Unhappiness is a common issue that affects many people. It’s easy to become consumed by our own problems and struggles, and in doing so, we can forget the power of helping others. When we focus solely on self-reward, self-shopping, and self-treating, we may temporarily feel good, but the effects often do not last. However, when we make a conscious effort to help others, we can experience long-lasting happiness and fulfillment.

Here are ten simple things you can do to help others and improve your own happiness:

  1. Volunteer your time: Helping others through volunteering is a great way to feel good about yourself and make a positive impact. Whether it’s at a local shelter, food bank, or community center, your time and effort will be appreciated.
  2. Offer a helping hand: If someone close to you is struggling, offer to help in any way you can. This could be anything from running errands to cooking a meal.
  3. Make a donation: Make a financial donation to a cause that is important to you, or donate items to a local charity.
  4. Write a letter of appreciation: Take the time to write a letter or send a card to someone who has made a positive impact on your life.
  5. Compliment someone: A kind word can go a long way. Take the time to compliment someone and brighten their day.
  6. Listen to someone: Sometimes all someone needs is a listening ear. Take the time to listen to someone and show them that you care.
  7. Pay it forward: Do something kind for someone and encourage them to pay it forward to someone else.
  8. Give a hug: A hug can be a powerful gesture that can instantly make someone feel better.
  9. Help with household chores: Offer to help with household chores for a friend, family member, or neighbor.
  10. Visit someone who is lonely: Spend time with someone who is feeling lonely, and bring a smile to their face.

Helping others is a powerful way to improve your own happiness. By focusing on the needs of others, you can forget about your own problems and experience a sense of fulfillment and satisfaction. So, if you’re feeling unhappy, try doing one of these simple acts of kindness and see the difference it can make in your life.

Taking the first steps towards helping others can often be fearful. We may feel uncertain about how we will be received or if we will be able to make a positive impact. However, it’s important to remember that fear should not hold us back. As Di Tran reminds us in her book “Drop the FEAR and Focus on the FAITH,” it’s important to focus on our faith and trust in ourselves and the impact we can make, rather than giving into fear. By taking small, intentional steps towards helping others, we can overcome our fears and experience the joy and happiness that comes from making a positive difference in the lives of those around us.