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Meeting Yourself at the Point of Failure: Embracing Challenges and Achieving Success through 100% Effort and Faith

Putting in one hundred percent effort is a key ingredient to achieving success and happiness in life. It is essential to approach every task with a strong work ethic, dedication, and unwavering commitment. However, it is equally important to recognize that failure is an inevitable part of the journey. When we meet ourselves at the point of failure with faith, we gain valuable lessons and insights that help us grow, learn, and become better versions of ourselves.

KEEP PUSHING

Author and motivational speaker, Denis Waitley, once said, “The winner’s edge is not in a gifted birth, a high IQ, or in talent. The winner’s edge is all in the attitude, not aptitude. Attitude is the criterion for success.” This quote emphasizes the importance of having the right mindset when it comes to achieving success. A positive attitude coupled with a strong work ethic can propel you towards your goals, even in the face of challenges and setbacks.

In his book, “The Power of Positive Thinking,” Norman Vincent Peale, a renowned minister and author, explores the idea that our thoughts have a powerful impact on our lives. He encourages readers to cultivate a positive mindset and to approach challenges with a “can-do” attitude. By putting in the effort and maintaining a positive outlook, we can overcome obstacles and achieve great things.

KEEP RUNNING

Another author who stresses the importance of putting in the effort is Angela Duckworth, a psychologist and author of the book, “Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance.” Duckworth argues that success is not just about talent or intelligence but is also determined by a person’s level of grit – their ability to persevere in the face of adversity. She emphasizes the need for individuals to develop resilience and to keep pushing forward, even when the going gets tough.

When we put in the effort and maintain a positive mindset, we build resilience and develop the grit necessary to overcome challenges and achieve our goals. However, it is equally important to recognize that failure is a necessary part of the process. When we fail, we gain valuable insights and learn important lessons that help us grow and improve.

As Henry Ford once said, “Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently.” This quote underscores the idea that failure is not a permanent setback but rather an opportunity to learn and improve. When we approach failure with faith and a positive attitude, we can use it as a stepping stone towards greater success and happiness.

Putting in one hundred percent effort is essential to achieving success and happiness in life. It requires a strong work ethic, dedication, and a positive mindset. When we meet ourselves at the point of failure with faith and a can-do attitude, we gain valuable insights and lessons that help us grow and become better versions of ourselves. As Denis Waitley once said, “Attitude is the criterion for success,” and by cultivating a positive attitude and putting in the effort, we can achieve great things.

Di Tran’s upcoming book “Drop the FEAR and Focus on the FAITH” emphasizes the importance of approaching challenges with a positive mindset and unwavering faith. Putting in 100% effort and embracing failure are critical steps in this process, as they provide opportunities for personal growth and development. By cultivating resilience, grit, and a can-do attitude, individuals can overcome obstacles and achieve success and happiness in their personal and professional lives. Tran’s book provides valuable insights and practical tools for those seeking to drop their fears and focus on their faith, and serves as a powerful reminder of the potential for growth and transformation when we approach challenges with courage and conviction.

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The Power of Intentional Listening: A Key to Alleviating Loneliness

Loneliness is an experience that many people go through at some point in their lives. It can be a painful and isolating feeling, and it often arises from the sense that one is not understood. When we feel lonely, we may feel that no one truly knows us or understands what we are going through. This can be especially difficult when we are struggling with difficult emotions or situations, and we feel that there is no one we can turn to.

The solution to loneliness, however, may be simpler than we think. While there are many strategies that can help us connect with others and feel more supported, one of the most important is simply to be listened to intentionally. This means being truly present with someone, hearing them out without judgment or the need to offer solutions. Listening is not about fixing someone’s problems, but rather about providing a safe space for them to share their experiences and feelings.

Di Tran, the author of “Drop the ME and Focus on the OTHERs,” understands this fact deeply. He spent 40 years learning how to truly listen to others and be present with them in their struggles. As he explains, when someone feels lonely, they simply need someone to sit with them in the mud where they are in their mental state and allow them to be heard. They don’t want to be fixed, but simply to be seen and heard.

For example, Di Tran’s wife often shares daily life stories with him, and he used to immediately jump into solution mode, trying to fix the situation or make judgments. However, he realized that this was not what his wife needed from him. Instead, she needed him to listen actively and follow along with her story, without trying to change or fix anything.

Learning to listen intentionally can be challenging, however. It requires us to put aside our own agendas, judgments, and desires to be helpful, and simply be present with the other person. It can be difficult to resist the urge to offer solutions or try to fix things, especially if we care deeply about the person and want to help. However, the act of truly listening can be incredibly powerful in and of itself. It can help the other person feel seen, heard, and understood, which can go a long way towards alleviating feelings of loneliness.

Loneliness is often about not feeling understood. However, the answer to loneliness is not to try to fix or change the situation, but simply to be present with the other person and listen intentionally. This can be a powerful way to help others feel seen, heard, and supported, and can go a long way towards alleviating feelings of loneliness and isolation. As Di Tran reminds us, dropping the “me” and focusing on the “others” can be the key to truly connecting with others and building deeper, more meaningful relationships.

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Finding Hope in Difficult Times: A Call to Journalists to Focus on the Positive

As a journalist, you are often called upon to cover difficult topics such as accidents, suicide, mental health, and other traumatic events. While it can be challenging to report on such stories, it is important to remember that there is always a positive side to every situation.

When reporting on accidents, it is essential to focus on the bravery and heroism of those who risked their lives to help others. Highlighting the stories of everyday heroes who have gone above and beyond to make a difference in the lives of others can inspire and motivate readers to be more compassionate and selfless.

When reporting on suicide, it is important to remember that there is always hope. Highlighting the stories of individuals who have overcome depression and suicidal thoughts can provide hope and inspiration to those who may be struggling with their mental health. Sharing stories of those who have found purpose and meaning in their lives after experiencing difficult times can also be a source of inspiration.

Mental health is another topic that can be challenging to cover, but it is also one that is essential to report on. Highlighting the stories of individuals who have received treatment and are now living fulfilling lives can help reduce the stigma surrounding mental health issues. Reporting on new treatments and therapies can also provide hope to those who are struggling with mental health issues.

It is important to remember that as journalists, we have the power to bring positive change to our communities. By focusing on the positive aspects of difficult situations, we can inspire and motivate others to make a difference in their own lives and the lives of those around them.

So, my fellow journalists, don’t be afraid to use a different lens when reporting on difficult topics. It may require more creativity and effort, but the end result is worth it. We have the power to make a difference and bring out the beauty in even the most challenging of situations. Let’s use that power to create a brighter, more hopeful future for us all.

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The Top Scams of 2022 and How to Protect Against Them: Insights from the FTC and Ethnic Media Services

Scammers have continued to evolve their tactics, and 2022 saw a rise in the total amount lost by consumers and small businesses. The Federal Trade Commission (FTC) partnered with Ethnic Media Services to reveal the top five scams of 2022 and their economic impact, as well as how to spot and protect against them.

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According to the FTC, while there was a decrease in the number of fraud reports received in 2022, the total amount lost by consumers and small businesses rose to $8.8 billion, the most ever reported. The top two frauds were imposter fraud and online shopping scams. Consumers reported losing $660 million to business imposters compared to $450 million the year before.

Investor fraud was the most lucrative for scammers, with consumers reporting a loss of almost $3.8 billion, with the majority in cryptocurrency scams. Scammers often entice consumers to invest in cryptocurrency through social media, presenting fake websites that show the consumer’s money growing. Social media was the contact method that had the highest aggregated dollar loss, with $1.2 billion.

The FTC experts also highlighted that scammers are targeting ethnic communities and speaking their language. For example, the Latino community filed a higher percentage of reports relating to problems with banks and lenders, related to debt collection, auto issues, and also business opportunities. Scammers also targeted Latinos with bogus business opportunities and work-at-home schemes. In contrast, the black community reported the largest number of reports about payday loan applications and student debt relief programs.

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To help people spot and avoid scams, the FTC provides information in a dozen languages, including Amharic, Arabic, Chinese (both simplified and traditional), French, Hmong, Korean, Russian, Somali, Tagalog, Vietnamese, and Ukrainian. The FTC’s downloadable publication, Spotting, Avoiding and Reporting Scams: A Fraud Handbook for recent refugees and immigrants, helps people learn to spot some of the scams related to looking for a job, going through the immigration process, or just trying to figure out how things work in the US. There are also graphics in each language at the bottom of each page to share on social media, helping people in various communities know how to spot, avoid, and report fraud.

In conclusion, while the number of fraud reports decreased in 2022, scammers continue to evolve their tactics, with investor fraud and cryptocurrency scams being the most lucrative. The FTC recommends being aware of scams and provides resources in multiple languages to help people spot, avoid, and report fraud.

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Stop Telling Your Parents to Relax: Encouraging Meaningful Activities in Retirement

Viet Bao Louisville, KY
Viet Bao Louisville, KY

Retirement is often seen as a time to relax and take it easy, but for many individuals, continuing to work and stay active can be a more fulfilling and healthier option. Di Tran’s mom is a perfect example of this mentality, stating, “Don’t tell me to retire, nor tell me to stop working.” Many people may be quick to advise retirees to “just relax” and stay at home, but this can be a bad idea for aging parents. Instead, encouraging meaningful activities and work can lead to better health outcomes and a more fulfilling life.

Fun Church Activities for elders

Human biologists and experts have found that a sedentary lifestyle can have negative effects on both physical and mental health. Dr. Herman Pontzer states, “The human body is designed for activity, and without it, we experience a range of health problems. We need movement to keep our muscles, bones, and cardiovascular systems healthy.” A study published in the Journal of Aging and Health found that sedentary behavior is associated with negative health outcomes such as obesity, diabetes, and cardiovascular disease.

In addition, without a sense of purpose, retirees can feel aimless and disconnected. The transition from a structured work schedule to a life of leisure can be challenging. National Geographic Fellow and longevity expert Dr. Dan Buettner suggests, “Having a purpose in life is critical for our mental health and wellbeing. For many people, work provides a sense of purpose and structure. Without it, retirees can struggle to find meaning in their day-to-day lives.”

Fun community activities for elders

Instead of urging parents to retire, it is crucial to encourage meaningful work and activities that provide a sense of purpose. Retirement does not necessarily mean a complete withdrawal from work; it can be an opportunity to explore new interests and passions, pursue hobbies, or even start a new business. Continuing to work and stay active can have positive impacts on both physical and mental health outcomes. As Di Tran was advised, “Don’t tell your parents to just relax, and just stay home and rest or just eat. Bad bad idea for old age.”

The pursuit of comfort in retirement may not be the best option for our long-term health. Instead, encouraging meaningful work and activities can lead to better health outcomes and a more fulfilling life. As Di Tran’s mom suggests, don’t urge retirees to retire; instead, encourage them to continue working on activities that provide a sense of purpose and keep them active.

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Di Tran’s Reflection on Resilience and Gratitude: A Family’s Experience during the Louisville Power Outage on February 27th, 2023

On February 27th, 2023, Louisville, Kentucky experienced strong winds gusting over 50 miles per hour that caused damage to trees and power lines, leading to power outages for over 7,000 households in the area. Di Tran and his family were among those affected, and they spent a night without electricity in their home.

Despite the hardship of the situation, Di Tran reflected on his gratitude for living in the United States, where he and his family could enjoy freedom and opportunity. He also remembered his past experiences in Vietnam, where he lived in a rural countryside without electricity, and taught his children to appreciate the simple things in life.

As the family sat in candlelight, they talked about their blessings and how they could help those less fortunate. The power outage brought them closer as a family and reminded them of the importance of resilience, gratitude, and community.

The following day, the power was restored, and life returned to normal. The experience left a lasting impression on Di Tran and his family, reminding them of the value of simple things and the power of human resilience in the face of adversity. The incident also highlighted the importance of preparedness for severe weather events and the need for community support during times of crisis.

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Exploring Cultural Beliefs and Sayings about Turning 40

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Viet Bao Louisville, KY

The milestone age of 40 is a subject of cultural and societal beliefs and sayings that have evolved over time. Here are some of the most common beliefs and their meanings:

“Life begins at 40″ – This popular saying suggests that 40 is the age when life starts anew. It implies that people at 40 feel more self-aware and are better equipped to embark on new adventures. According to the author Sarah Ban Breathnach, “We have learned to listen more closely to our intuition, to follow our dreams, and to take action on things that we are passionate about.”

“Over the hill” – This phrase is used humorously to describe someone who has passed their prime. The saying implies that people at 40 are past their peak and are now on the downward slope of their lives. However, this can be disputed, as many successful people such as J.K. Rowling, Jeff Bezos, and Elon Musk accomplished their biggest achievements after 40.

“Midlife crisis” – This phrase suggests that around the age of 40, many individuals experience a period of introspection and questioning about their life choices and goals. This term was first coined by psychoanalyst Elliot Jaques in 1965 to describe the sudden realization of one’s mortality and the resulting changes in priorities. In fact, many books such as “The Second Half of Life” by Angeles Arrien and “Man’s Search for Meaning” by Viktor E. Frankl, explore this subject in depth.

“Forty and fabulous” – This phrase celebrates reaching 40 and suggests that it can be a time when people feel confident, accomplished, and proud of what they have achieved. For many, 40 is a time of empowerment, as they’ve gained wisdom, knowledge, and experience over the years. According to the author Laura Fraser, “As I got older, I realized that what I wanted was more powerful than what I was afraid of.”

It’s important to note that while these sayings reflect common attitudes and beliefs about the age of 40, everyone’s experience of turning 40 is unique. Some may feel invigorated by this age, while others may feel anxious. Therefore, it’s important to approach the milestone with a positive outlook and embrace the opportunities it brings.

The cultural and societal beliefs and sayings about age 40 are varied and reflect a range of attitudes towards this milestone age. While some may suggest that 40 is over the hill or signals a midlife crisis, others view it as a time for new beginnings, empowerment, and self-reflection. Ultimately, the meaning of turning 40 is subjective and depends on the individual’s life experiences and attitude.

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Di Tran’s Encounter with Dr. Price: A Message of Progress and Equity

Dr.Price and Di Tran
Dr.Price and Di Tran

On February 16th, 2023, Di Tran attended a weekly event hosted by the Rotary Club of Louisville where she had the opportunity to meet with Dr. Price. From the start of their conversation, Di Tran was struck by Dr. Price’s opening statement, “I pray that God talk through me, and to you today.” It was an indication of the deep connection that Dr. Price had to her faith and a sign of her sincerity in addressing the issues that affect the community.

Dr. Price introduced herself as a member of the Urban League, a non-profit organization that aims to promote economic empowerment and social justice for people of color. She described how she starts her staff meetings with a reflection on the past, present, and future of the Urban League. She spoke with conviction and confidence that the past is obsolete, the future is obsolete, and the current state of progress is where the focus should be. She emphasized that the community must work together to create a future where there is no need to talk about equity, especially for black and brown people.

Dr. Price’s message was about leaning into discomfort and feeling it for others. It was a call to action for people to step outside their comfort zones and confront the challenges facing the community. She stressed the importance of taking practical steps to address the issues that prevent people from realizing their full potential.

One practical example that Dr. Price shared was the accessibility of Kumon tutoring for underprivileged children. Di Tran was highly aligned with this idea, recognizing that education is one of the keys to breaking the cycle of poverty. Dr. Price’s emphasis on the importance of practical solutions and small steps resonated with Di Tran and many others in the room.

Dr. Price’s message was one of hope and progress. She talked about the future of the city being bright because of people like herself and Di Tran coming together to do small things that add up. It was a reminder that positive change is possible, and it starts with each individual making a difference in their own way. Di Tran left the event feeling inspired and encouraged to continue making a positive impact in the community.

In conclusion, Di Tran’s meeting with Dr. Price at the Rotary Club of Louisville’s weekly event was a reminder of the importance of focusing on others and having faith in the future. As Di Tran writes in his first book, “Drop the ME and Focus on the OTHERs,” the key to personal and professional growth is shifting our attention away from ourselves and towards those around us. Dr. Price’s emphasis on leaning into discomfort and feeling it for others, as well as her commitment to providing resources like Kumon tutoring for underprivileged children, are shining examples of this principle in action.

Drop the FEAR and Focus on the FAITH by Di Tran

As Di Tran prepares to release his second book, “Drop the FEAR and Focus on the FAITH,” we can look forward to further insights and inspiration on how to navigate the challenges of life and work with courage and conviction. With the guidance of leaders like Dr. Price and the example of Di Tran’s own journey, we can all strive to become better, more compassionate, and more effective in our personal and professional lives.

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Surrendering to God and Filling the Emptiness: A Profound Conversation with Liz Curtis Higgs

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Who is Liz Curtis Higgs

Liz Curtis Higgs is a bestselling author, speaker, and Bible teacher. She was born in Kentucky, USA, in 1953, and grew up in a Christian family. She has written more than 30 books, including non-fiction works on topics such as biblical studies, women’s issues, and Christian living, as well as novels and children’s books.

Liz Curtis Higgs

Higgs is perhaps best known for her Bad Girls of the Bible series, which explores the lives of women in the Bible who made mistakes or broke the rules, such as Eve, Delilah, and Bathsheba. Her books have sold millions of copies and have been translated into numerous languages.

In addition to her writing, Higgs is a popular speaker and Bible teacher, and has traveled extensively to speak at conferences and events. She has also appeared on numerous television and radio programs. Higgs currently lives in Louisville, Kentucky, with her husband, Bill, and their two children.

Di Tran’s Meeting with Liz Curtis Higgs

Meeting Liz Curtis Higgs was a truly wonderful experience, and it was clear that God was working through both of us during our conversation. We talked about surrendering to God and the moment when we each became aware of the presence of the divine in our lives. Liz shared a profound insight with me, that our hearts, souls, and cores are like empty vacuum spaces that are constantly seeking to be filled with something.

As humans, we often seek to fill this emptiness with material things, food, alcohol, negativity, anger, power, success, or any number of other things. But what we fill up with truly matters, and the answer to our seeking is much simpler than we might imagine.

Di Tran + Liz Curtis Higgs

The answer has always been with us, as God is within each of us. We have everything we need, including the most powerful of all things, our spirit, which is in harmony with the infinite divine universe. The challenge is that we often don’t let our spirit do its job, as we try to control everything in our lives.

What we need to do is surrender and let go of our self, so that our spirit can run its course naturally and manifest the things we desire. This is in alignment with the idea of “Drop the FEAR and Focus on the FAITH,” which I explore in my upcoming book, the guide to faith by understanding fear and worry, and surrendering them so that God has the space to work through us.

It’s clear that filling the emptiness with things outside in the world doesn’t fill it. We need God as the energy to fill that space, and surrendering to God allows this energy to flow freely.

I’m so grateful for my conversation with Liz, and for the wisdom she shared with me. It’s clear that God is working through her, and through each of us, in ways that we might not even realize.

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Steps to Becoming a Priest in the Catholic Church: An Overview of the Ranks and Requirements

Di Tran, CEO of Viet Bao Louisville Ky
Di Tran, CEO of Viet Bao Louisville Ky

In the Catholic Church, the priesthood is an ordained ministry that provides spiritual guidance and sacramental support to the faithful. Here is a list of the ranks in the priesthood, in ascending order:

  1. Deacon: To become a deacon, a man must first be a baptized and confirmed Catholic. He must then express a desire to serve in the diaconate, undergo formation and discernment, and be approved by his bishop. The formation process typically involves several years of academic study, spiritual development, and practical training. Once ordained, deacons serve in a variety of roles, including preaching, administering the sacrament of baptism, and performing charitable work.
  2. Priest: To become a priest, a man must first be a deacon, although some men enter directly into the seminary from lay life. Like those aspiring to the diaconate, men pursuing the priesthood must undergo formation and discernment, be approved by their bishop, and be ordained. The formation process for priests is typically more extensive than for deacons, including deeper studies in theology, philosophy, and pastoral ministry.
  3. Bishop: To become a bishop, a priest must first demonstrate a strong commitment to the Church and a high level of pastoral and theological expertise. He must also be approved by the Pope and receive the consensus of his fellow bishops. The process of becoming a bishop involves extensive consultation and evaluation, and the man selected must demonstrate exceptional leadership, spiritual depth, and a willingness to serve the Church.
  4. Archbishop: An archbishop is simply a bishop who heads an archdiocese, which is a particular church with a specific geographical jurisdiction. To become an archbishop, a bishop must first demonstrate a successful record of leadership and pastoral service in his diocese, and then be appointed by the Pope to lead the archdiocese.
  5. Cardinal: Cardinals are members of the College of Cardinals, which is a group of senior church leaders who advise the Pope and play a key role in electing a new Pope when the need arises. To become a cardinal, a bishop must be appointed by the Pope and receive the consensus of the College of Cardinals.
  6. Pope: The Pope is the Bishop of Rome and the leader of the worldwide Catholic Church. To become Pope, one must first be a bishop, although not necessarily a cardinal. When the Pope dies or resigns, the College of Cardinals meets in a process known as a conclave to elect a new Pope. The election is based on the qualities of the candidates, the needs of the Church, and the guidance of the Holy Spirit. The man elected Pope must then be approved by a two-thirds majority of the College of Cardinals.

It’s worth noting that not all priests become bishops, and not all bishops become cardinals. The appointment to each rank is made by the Pope and is based on a variety of factors, including experience, leadership skills, and the needs of the Church.

Drop the FEAR and Focus on the FAITH

In conclusion, the priesthood is a noble and demanding form of community service that requires both dedication and courage. It is a calling to serve the Church and the people of God with love, compassion, and spiritual guidance. This calling is not for the faint of heart, as it requires a deep commitment to serving others and a willingness to sacrifice personal interests for the greater good. However, for those who are called to the priesthood, it can be an incredibly rewarding and fulfilling vocation that brings joy and meaning to their lives.

This message is in line with the teachings of Di Tran in his book “Drop the FEAR and Focus on the FAITh.” Tran encourages readers to overcome their fears and to trust in God’s plan for their lives. He reminds us that with faith, we can overcome any obstacle and live a life of purpose and fulfillment. For those considering the priesthood, this message is particularly relevant. The priesthood can be a challenging path, but with faith and a commitment to serving others, it can also be a source of great joy and satisfaction. By focusing on the faith and letting go of fear, those called to the priesthood can confidently answer the call and make a positive impact on the world.